![]() ![]() ![]() Recently took my child’s mother to court for neglect and safety concerns, at court a interim care order was put in place banning her new boyfriend from being around them due to having people kidnap him for drug money and cocaine being found in a drug test, my sons brothers dad has also gone to court for the same thing, social services are heavily involved as are caffcass, recently I got a report from the social services that will be used in the next court appearance they have redacted all sorts from it but left my address and the other fathers on there, the other father has a history of violence towards the mother so I fear if he gets desperate he will turn up at my house looking for answers, I never gave consent for my address being put on the report as I live with my parents, is this a breach of data protection? I’d like to sue them for this but don’t know where I stand legally, all they have done is say sorry and not tried to rectify the issue, they have not acted professionally on many occasions and this has over stepped the line in my opinion Submitted by Kitchen-Food7284 to u/Kitchen-Food7284 Ģ023.03.11 21:09 Jmm544 How long does the trigger shot really stay in your system? I’m scared to get excited by this very faint line. I came home everything was great but I had no time to heal or to even accept what had just happened I was out on a cafiter meaning I couldn’t move to tend to my baby and the dad didn’t make it any easier. I started to bleed out and had about 15 doctors rush into the room to save me. I gave birth which was a traumatic experience don’t get me wrong I loved it but I nearly died. I was so strong I really was, I was only 18. I went through pregnancy struggling with my changing body and all the weight I was gaining that I couldn’t my control. There is nothing more in this world that I wanted than to be a mom and I knew I’d be a great one (which I am). I was on anti depressants and anxiety medication was diagnosed with bd and eating disorders. Not long later I found I’m out I was pregnant. But neither of them offered me an apology or even really discussed what had happened previously, my mom just pretended like it didn’t happen and tried to be there fo me. He was silent and just looked at him like omg I’ve fucked up. My partner told him you do understand that Beth was instantly put on the exact same medication as you. I got a phone call back from my doctor I told him exactly how I was feeling and his response was “aMy medication was 50mg of the exact same type my dads had just been upped to. After a while I rang the emergency line when I couldn’t cope and they spoke to me and sent me to my doctors. I rang my partner and asked him to pick me up from my moms she came out to the car and asked if me and my partner had been arguing he said no other wise she wouldn’t of asked me to pick her up. No one asked me why or if they could help, just straight up crushed my feeling the same as they always have. So like I wasn’t already feeling weak enough for being so vulnerable I was also put down straight away. He said “what have you got to be depressed about”. So I did, in absolute tears I went down stairs and said to my dad I’m really struggling I think I may be depressed. I told her I couldn’t cope anymore and didn’t want to be here, she told me to go downstairs and tell me dad how I was feeling. My dad as long as I can remember and brother after he self harmed and nearly killed himself. They were both on medication and had been for a while. She said no beth(fake name) your dad is depressed, your brother is depressed, you are not. I was still at my moms and I just burst into tears and couldn’t stop crying I was so low and I told my mom I think I may be depressed. Don’t get me wrong I had/have my partner but we would argue constantly he would call me out on everything I did. I can’t do anything right, I can’t say anything right and had nobody. ![]() I couldn’t cope anymore with this shit life and how I was feeling. I was in the depth of my depression and was on the verge of suicide. ![]() I feel like I want to do a full story rant so here we go. Currently feeling like shit in general but also as a mom. I don’t even care if anyone reads this but if you do, thanks. ![]()
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